Each time there is communication breakdown between you there is an invisible wall building between you that gets wider and higher. This barrier is a breakdown in trust because the other person no longer feels safe to share their thoughts or feelings with you.
When this happens your relationship is as good as over as the intimacy that you once may have enjoyed is dead and buried behind the wall. Some people are able to break through these walls if they work long and hard enough at peeling away the bricks, while others move onto the next relationship only to have the same thing happen all over again.
The Ultimate Stress Relief Techniques for Relationships
Be Agreeable
The secret to happy and fulfilling relationships where intimacy deepens over time is simply to be agreeable. This means you¡¯re open to listening and feeling where the other is coming from.
Never Argue
If you can¡¯t agree with the other then just thank them for sharing and leave it at that. The fact is that if another person¡¯s happiness is more important than your need to be right then your relationships can never fail. This builds trust and respect between you.
Never Give an Opinion unless it¡¯s Asked For.
Just developing this skill alone will keep you out of the divorce courts. It doesn¡¯t mean that you shouldn¡¯t have an opinion it just means that you keep it to yourself unless it¡¯s been requested or you¡¯ve asked permission to share it.
Develop Your People Skills
Stressful relationships are no accident they happen because of a lack of people skills. The fastest way to achieve instant stress relief from communication breakdowns with your loved ones is to know that all of us just want to feel loved and approved of. To give another the gift of understanding is to give the gift of love through good communication.
To your great life and health!
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